Definition: Child develops close relationships with one or more familiar adults (including family members) and interacts in an increasingly competent and cooperative manner with familiar adults
Note: For young children, learning is an integrated experience. The examples below may include multiple areas of learning and development.
Responding Earlier
Responds to faces, voices, or actions of familiar people
Possible Examples
Widens eyes or brightens face at the face of a familiar adult.
Orients toward a familiar adult’s voice.
Quiets when picked up by a familiar adult.
Responding Later
Shows a preference for familiar adults and tries to interact with them
Possible Examples
Reaches for a familiar adult when being held by another adult.
Vocalizes at a familiar adult to gain the adult’s attention.
Laughs in anticipation before a familiar adult nuzzles child’s neck.
Source: California Department of Education. 2016.
Exploring Earlier
Interacts in simple ways with familiar adults and tries to maintain the interactions
Possible Examples
Places toy on a familiar adult’s lap, goes to get another toy, and then places that toy on the adult’s lap.
Puts hands near head to continue a game of peek- a-boo when a familiar adult pauses.
Repeatedly hands little cars to a familiar adult to continue a joint activity.
Exploring Later
Initiates activities with familiar adults;
and
Seeks out assistance or support from familiar adults
Possible Examples
Grasps a familiar adult’s hand to gain attention, and then gestures to begin a finger-play game.
Communicates interest in looking at a book with a familiar adult.
Brings a blanket to a familiar adult and then climbs into the adult’s lap when upset.
Gestures to a familiar adult for assistance about how to remove a tight lid from a canister.
Source: California Department of Education. 2016.
Building Earlier
Engages in extended interactions with familiar adults in a variety of situations (e.g., sharing ideas or experiences, solving simple problems)
Possible Examples
Communicates to a familiar adult, “Want some tea?” during a pretend tea party.
Completes a simple puzzle with a familiar adult, taking turns to fit pieces.
Shares rocks collected while playing outside with a familiar adult.
Uses an electronic tablet to play a game with a familiar adult.
Building Middle
Seeks a familiar adult’s ideas or explanations about events or experiences that are interesting to the child
Possible Examples
Asks a teacher why another child is not going outside with the group.
Communicates to an adult, “What’s the bee doing?” while watching a bee fly from flower to flower or sharing a book together about bees.
Asks a familiar adult for a suggestion about how to build the tower to keep it from falling down.
Building Later
Takes initiative in creating cooperative activities with a familiar adult
Possible Examples
Offers to place napkins and cups on the table when a familiar adult is preparing a snack.
Brings a board game to a familiar adult and communicates an interest in playing together.
Gives pretend food to a familiar adult and communicates, “I made some hamburgers for you. You tell me what you want to drink.”
Integrating Earlier
Works cooperatively with familiar adults, over sustained periods, to plan and carry out activities or to solve problems
Possible Examples
Works together with a familiar adult to complete a puzzle over several days, organizing pieces in different ways.
Plans a gardening activity with a familiar adult, communicating by signing the materials needed.
Gathers possible construction materials, such as glue, paper, and scissors, from a supply shelf to contribute to a building project with a familiar adult.
Works with a familiar adult and a group of children to make a piñata over two days, offering alternatives for its shape and construction and what will go inside.